Relationship. (A boy)

I wonder why whenever a relationship falls/end,
a couple quarrel,
it is always the boy at fault.

Other people might not know what happen in the relationship itself,
and start to accuse the boy with various stuffs.
So what if a boy have alot of ex-girlfs before?
So what if a boy use to change girlfs alot of times?
So?
Did anyone really went to wonder whether did the boy put in effort in all of his relationship just that they were all not successful?
Did anyone wonder how the boy feel when he broke up with his girlf?
Did anyone bother?
Or did you all just did the same things like the others,
Blacklist the boy.
Flirter, Hongster and whatever nicks you all can come up off.
So did the government implement a law saying,
flirters cannot find another girlf?
Which law say that?

Ever wonder why a relationship wont last long?
Entering the r/s too soon?
No chemistry?
Not really honest and trusting each other?
Think about it yourself la.
You think a boy want to be nickname hongster and such?
What will happen if a girl that the boy like also call him flirt, saying she will not be secure when she is with him?
What will the boy feel?
What happen in the past, is already the past.
Why still go and bother much about how many ex-girlf a person have?
You want to know so much for?
Since it dont even concern you,
why keep want to find out so much?

Its alright.
Just continue with these labels and move on in life.
Dont think the boy need a girlfriend so much in poly also.
Since he is so busy with the everyday stuffs in school.
Continue looking at him with your "specs"
GoodBye!